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Don’t give him second chance, if he does these mistakes!

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New Delhi, June 14: Relationships are all about to be with someone who understands you and stands like a pillar behind you, but if he is the one who has done any of these mistakes which are mentioned below then you need to walk away soon.

1. Verbal abuse or physical abuseabuse

Abusive talks make the relationship complicated, despite the blatant obviousness of how wrong they are because our ego says that our love can change a person. Worse, we are so battered that we force ourselves to take the heat for the sake of our children or families. You are better than this. Never mind what people say; leaving an abusive guy will hurt ten times less than his constant mistreatment.

2. Molesting or sexually harassing another person in any way.Never be a woman who defends anything wrong. No matter how nice he is to you, don’t be the one who says, “But he has never done it to me.” It’s a stupid response and you are encouraging a criminal who has no respect for women. Just because he has not done it with you, does not mean he is incapable of it, or that he will not do it in the future. Acknowledging the problem in an offender is crucial to treating it and changing their behaviour, instead of living in denial.

 

3. Saying bad about you to his friends and family.Couple

If a man is saying something bad about you to his loved ones, it is not only going to make you a joke in their eyes, but it means he doesn’t even love you or respect you. Anyone with the slightest semblance of self-respect knows better than to stay in such a situation. Don’t put up with the negativity!

4. Him not standing up for you in front of others.

Love is about standing together, it is about fighting alongside each other, and defending each other from others. No matter how much you battle with each other, in front of the outside world, you must always stand by each other. If he doesn’t, then he is not the right partner for you. Wait for someone who always stands beside you.

5. Ignoring consent or lack thereof.couples-love1-wefornewsSay it anything whether, going through with sex without permission, or forcing himself on you when you don’t want it, is rape. If a man rapes you, even if he is your husband or boyfriend, not only should you not stick around, but you should seek immediate legal recourse.

6. Him body-shaming or slut-shaming you or any other woman.couple-wefornewsNo one has the right to shame you for your choices, whether in terms of how many people you sleep with, what you wear, or how much you eat and what size that makes you. Hence, if a man body-shames you, and tells you that you aren’t beautiful, then there is no option except to leave him. It is one thing to encourage each other to be healthy, and another thing to beat them down by shaming them.

 

7. Him policing your social media activity and checking your phone without provocation.Couple Having Argument At HomeA man who is suspicious and possessive without a cause is going to suffocate you with restrictions. Don’t be someone with someone who cannot allow you to live your life. Leave him and his insanity behind!

8. Cheating.CoupleSleeping with someone else when you are in a monogamous relationship is cheating you out of the love and attention he promised he will only give you. Not only that, emotional involvement with another person is as bad, because he refuses to give you your due, and lavishes it upon another person. Don’t be side-wheel.

 

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Choco lava cake hot favourite among lovebirds

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New Delhi, Feb 19: Lovebirds indulged in some sugary goodness, including choco lava cake, on Valentine’s Day, reveals a survey.

According to findings derived from Swiggy’s order analysis for Valentine’s Day on February 14 and eight Wednesdays before that, love-struck Indians stuck to their favourites, the most shareable pizza and fries, as their order increased sharply by 55 per cent and 38 per cent respectively.

Choco lava cake saw an increase of 73 per cent. There were four times more donuts orders and red velvet items were also ordered 3.5 times more, read a statement.

The 2018 Valentine’s Day food trends are on the basis of Swiggy’s order analysis of the cities of Bengaluru, Mumbai, Delhi/NCR, Chennai, Hyderabad, Kolkata, Pune, Ahmedabad, Chandigarh and Jaipur.

“Despite the usual excitement around making Valentine’s Day special, an increasing number of urbanites made the choice to spend it at home with their loved ones.

“Deterred by urban challenges like long working hours, traffic, planning and reservation and parking, many couples opted to have their Valentine’s dates over great food, in the privacy of their homes,” said Srivats TS, Vice President, Marketing at Swiggy.

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Here’s how materialism may harm your married life

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New York, Feb 16: Do you often end up having heated discussions with your spouse over money matters? Beware, your fondness for material possessions may affect your love life and push your marriage towards an unhappy ending, says a new study.

The study found that when materialism — the pursuit of money and possessions — gets prioritised over other dimensions of life, it harms conjugal bonding.

Materialism crowds out other life priorities and creates a scarcity of time for other priorities such as communication, conflict resolution and intimacy.

It thus decreases the importance and sense of satisfaction in a marriage.

“Marriage dissatisfaction occurs because those who highly value money and possessions are less likely to value their marriage and are thus likely to be less satisfied in their relationship,” said lead author Ashley LeBaron, Professor at the Brigham Young University (BYU) in Ohio.

Further, materialism may also be associated with a possession-oriented rather than a relationship-oriented approach to happiness.

In other words, materialistic spouses may be seeking happiness in possessions, rather than people, which means they end up putting less time and energy into making their marriage a success, the researchers noted, in a paper published in the Journal of Family and Economic Issues.

Despite the findings, the researchers believe that changes can be made by couples to solve this issue.

“Many people are not fully aware of their materialism or the degree to which the pursuit of money is becoming an unbalanced priority in their life,” explained Jason Carroll, Professor at BYU.

“It is helpful for spouses to evaluate and openly discuss the time patterns in their lives and make sure they are devoting enough time to prioritize and strengthen their marriage relationship,” Carroll suggested.

For the study, the researchers asked 1,310 married individuals to fill a questionnaire in order to measure their materialism, perception of marriage importance and marital satisfaction.

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Ditch flowers, perfumes; gift your Valentine something different

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New Delhi, Feb 14: Give chocolates, flowers and fragrances a miss, say experts who suggest a box-full of natural sanitary pads for your girlfriend and gift your man a coffee maker on Valentine’s Day, which is celebrated on February 14 every year.

Prem Dewan, Retail Head, OSL Luxury Collections Pvt Ltd at Corneliani; Ravi Saxena, Managing Director at Wonderchef; Tanvi Johri Co-founder at Carmesi and Yatin Hans, Co-founder at Bigsmall.in and Ute Pauline Wiemer, co-founder at Lovetreats, have listed a few quirky options:

* Cufflinks look small but do wonders to simple and boring outfits. There are number of designs and textures available that can bring instant fun to the look. Cufflinks with Aztec design works best for formal attires. Those imprinted in different motifs like skull, bear and bottles, can be gifted to someone who likes to keep it funky and hippie.

* Buy him/her a pair of footwear. A pair of white sneakers is not a desire but a need that will complement a casual styling.

* You could gift her diamonds or that gorgeous dress she mentioned a few days back, but you can also show that you care about her by getting her a chic black box that consists of natural sanitary pads. The top-layer of the pads is made with corn starch, the middle layer or the core is made of bamboo fiber, while the bottom is made with corn-based bioplastic.

The box has one-month pack of pads along with a tea box, a scented candle and essential oil. These will help make her hardest time of the month, a lot more bearable.

* If she loves her ice cream tub, get her a heart-shaped ice cream scoop and if she loves different glasses, how about getting her a heart-shaped glass in which she can sip her whiskey or hot chocolate.

* Your boyfriend/girlfriend loves coffee? Invest in a good duet coffee maker which can brew two cups of finely brewed coffee with one fill.

* For a special and intimate night on Valentine’s Day, be a bit more daring by gifting him or her a vibrating sex ring, pleasure sleeve for men, lucky ball masturbator or glow in the dark condoms.

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