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London, April 12:  A bisexual man gets attracted towards both males and females, research says they can be better lovers, partners and fathers.

Amber Rose, famous personality, well-known for standing against slut-shaming and having a sex positive attitude, said in Facebook Q&A she would not date a bisexual man. “Personally-no judgment-I wouldn’t be comfortable. I just wouldn’t be comfortable with it and I don’t know why.”

Straight men were turned out with more emotions.

Glamour magazine found in a survey that almost two-thirds of women “wouldn’t date a man who has had sex with another man.”

These men questioned on the most negative aspects of masculine character traits: including aggression. They also were less likely to value unequal and traditional gender roles, according to Dr Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli, Senior Lecturer in Social Diversity in Health and Education at Deakin University and the co-author of the book Women in Relationships with Bisexual Men.

To make their findings, she and researcher Sara Lubowitz studied 79 Australian women who had been with bisexual men.

“Their partners had had to question their masculinity and sexuality,” Dr Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli tells The Independent. “Because of this, these men were far more sensitive and desired to establish an equitable relationship. They were far more respectful. They were keen fathers and wanted to set up equitable gender relationships in the home.

“We had some women who said that after dating a bi man, they could never go back to dating a straight man.”

She adds: “In most films, bisexual men have either been killed, suicided, or been killers. And been the HIV carriers into the straight world. Very few films, and only recently has film begun to explore polyamory and bisexuality, and women in relationships with bisexual men, in a more positive and varied light.”

The lack of diverse sex education, somewhere responsible for these issues between women and bisexual men and why this pairing is poorly understood, says Dr Pallotta-Chiarolli.

As a result, if a man’s partner discovered his bisexuality by mistake – for instance by finding gay porn or a condom in his pocket – women generally responded in one of three ways. By breaking up with the partner immediately; ending the relationship because of an unrelated issue; or communicating and navigation the situation.

“It became more about gender roles and misogyny. That’s what contributed to an unhealthy relationship,” she says.

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Vastu elements for right winter vibes at home

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Candles invoke the energy of purification and inspiration. They warm up the energy and help release daily stress.

New Delhi, Dec 16: Adding elements like candles, fireplace, bright Christmas lights and fiery gold and red decorations will not just help to beautify your home, but also lend a positive vibe, say Vastu experts.

Astro numerologist, tarot and Vastu expert Shelly Maheswari Gupta, suggests:

* Fire represents the energy of sun and life. A balanced feng shui fire element in your home will bring joy, excitement and strong energies. Use the colour red with most moderation in children’s rooms, and freely in the living room, the dining room and the kitchen.

* Candles invoke the energy of purification and inspiration. They warm up the energy and help release daily stress. Candles also bring a creative and vibrant quality of energy to any space. Candles are best used in the feng shui areas of south, southwest, northeast and the centre of your home.

* Decorate your home with garlands and lights in U-shape so that they seem to ‘smile’. Decorate at eye-level to lift the vibe of the room and the mood of those in it.

* Put a picture of your family and friends with you in a wooden frame. Wood is associated with family and friends in feng shui, and place that in the lobby it allows for feelings of closeness, intimacy and welcoming — be it scentsible pine or eucalyptus scents cleanse an atmosphere of negative energy. Cloves and bayberry create calm and harmony. And putting cloves in oranges and placing them in the kitchen or dining room encourages abundance, money and joy.

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Vastu expert Mukul Kaushik said:

* Place a money plant or bamboo tree in the middle of northeast direction of your home. It helps you not only financially, but also creates a positive aura.

* Light a red coloured lamp in the south direction of you room every day 2 to 3 hours in the evening. It keeps away negative energies from you and also provides warmth in winters.

* Use salt lamp in the south direction of the house and burn camphor everyday, which clean the aura of home and make you feel happy.

* Plant a tree of jade in your drawing room.

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Give your family gift of pure air this Christmas

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New Delhi, Dec 16: You must be getting ready to celebrate and rejoice the Christmas season with your near and dear ones. How about spending time in clean and pure air in easy ways?

Priya Nair, Vice President – Home Care, HUL (Hindutan Unilevel Limited) on behalf of Pureit Air Purifiers lists the steps to make sure that your loved ones are not just happy but healthy too.

* Air Purifiers: Controlling the air you breathe at home has never been easier. Use Air Purifiers with the Advance HEPA technology.

* Steam: Clear your air-passages and eliminate any harmful particulates and pollutants by inhaling steam every day. Add a few drops of essential oils like eucalyptus to further relax your senses.

*Air pollution masks: Use a protective facemask when walking outdoors.

*Vitamin C: Include foods that are rich in Vitamin C in your diet to help you boost your immunity and beat the ill effects of smog.

*Stay hydrated: Increase your water intake which will help cleanse your body and blood stream of harmful pollutants.

Arvind Chabra, Country Head of face mask brand Blueair India, says that it is very essential to identify the Invisible dangers of breathing polluted air.

“Outdoor pollution that sweeps in along with the combination of existing indoor pollutants can be more dangerous and worse than outdoor. Many studies in the past confirmed that indoor air can be five times or more polluted than outside,” he told IANS.

“Given that indoors (home or workplace) is where we spend nearly 90 percent of our time, One should take proactive steps to address airborne pollutants and create safer indoor,” added Chabra.

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New Delhi, Dec 15: A bridesmaid should ensure that her style game is on point to add to the glamour quotient of the stage. Picking the right outfit and jewellery plays an essential role in the overall look, say experts.

Ranu Bathwal, Founder of Popup Galleria, and Sarika Naheta, Director at Jaipur Jewels, have shared some insights for a bridesmaids look this wedding season.

* For a western look, one can go for an elaborate embellished gown with interesting tassel back detailing or an off-shoulder or cape sleeves blouse paired with a cummerbund and lehenga for a traditional yet contemporary look.

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* One can accessorise their ensemble with statement and elegant jewellery pieces like maang tikas, chandbalis or jhumkas, chokers, and kundan necklaces. A pair of colourful meenakari chandbalis adorned with pearls always makes up for a perfect ethnic look. One can add a touch of pretty pearls, emeralds or ornate embellishment for the hair accessory.

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* For a friend’s sangeet function, the bridesmaids can accessorise a cropped blouse and flared skirt look with traditional Rajasthani borla jewellery that helps to enhance the overall look of an ensemble. For haldi, a tunic top and dhoti pants paired with chunky chandbalis work best for a quirky traditional look.

* For the traditional wedding pheras, the bridesmaid can opt for a statement emerald or diamond studded choker or layered necklace paired with a sari or lehenga to make a fashion statement.

For the main wedding reception function, a gown or a drape accessorised with cocktail power rings and emerald chandeliers will be perfect.

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